Our Break Up – The Turning Point & Eventual End
I have never had any luck with relationships breakups being easy. The first girl that I ever dated was probably the worst break up that I ever went through. We were dating for approximately three months and the relationship started on troubled ground.
She had been dating my best friend for about four months and the three of us hung out quite a bit. They had gotten together at the end of the school year and over the summer she had gotten used to being with my best friend on a daily basis.
When the next school year began, my friend was overwhelmed with his new workload from his classes. There came a day when she came over to my house, wanting to hang out and I let her in thinking that we would play cards.
While we were hanging out, my friend called complaining that she had been bugging him. Little did he know that she was able to hear his end of the conversation, I told him that she was at my place and convinced him to talk to her for a minute. Their conversation did not go to well. By the end, she was in tears and I did not know what to do. We ended up kissing.
I think that she had to get over a break up by getting into a new relationship. Our relationship was good for a while, but her mother did not approve. She ended up moving about an hour drive away and the distance came ended up adding to existing tension just.
After a break up I find myself doing a lot of soul searching. I think that all relationships, good, bad or ugly, can be used to my benefit if I am willing to look at the part that I played in them. Getting over a break up is never easy. I think that this relationship taught me to be a little less impulsive because it cost me the friendship.




