Getting over a relationship is never easy. After twenty-three years and a handful of semi-serious relationships with women, I’ve learned that ending the relationship never really gets easier. People might tell you it does, but odds are they are probably in some pretty serious denial. My most recent adventure in breaking up was with my [...]
She was the girl for me. I knew it the second she came into the car wash where I was working, the second our eyes locked in front of the M&M machine after I asked her, “Care for a quarter?”
True story.
We had our first date that night, our first kiss the next, and two weeks [...]
There are very few sure things in life, very few rules that go uncontested through our daily routines. It seems that when these truths make themselves evident, they make our ears bleed, our teeth crack and our chest numb. This particular relationship, I learned, broke one of those rules. When your best friend breaks up [...]
Coming home to that empty apartment was more than I could face in the beginning. I remember the crazy afternoon when I found her message written on pink notepaper stuck to the fridge. I guess it wasn’t as bad as being dumped in a text message like my friend Ray, but the fact that I [...]
In the days or weeks right after breaking up, talking it out with friends sometimes just doesn’t do it justice…
The whole avalanche of emotions, all the inner conflicts and complexities…
Trying to express that to a friend can just seem almost impossible if you aren’t a poet, a writer or someone who just isn’t used to [...]