RULE #7: Do Whatever It Takes For You To Get Over Your Ex Girlfriend & “Move On”…

 

The reality is most guys never do anything about this area of their life.

Most guys languish about and wait for the pain to go away.

They sit and stew in the pain only for them to find that months or EVEN years later they haven’t moved on.

They live in the SHADOW of their last relationship and they walk around carrying the baggage from the fallout everywhere they go.

They never get a sense of having a “fresh start” because they’re still living in the past.

And most of the time, they don’t even realize they are doing it.

If you spend the next few weeks actively doing whatever it takes to get over her…

Here in a few weeks everything about your ex girlfriend will be old news and the “cloudiness” you’re waking around will lift.

You’ll no longer worry about how things are going to be without her…

You’ll no longer have to worry about running into her or seeing her with another guy because you literally “won’t care”…

You’ll no longer be living in the past and you’ll have the energy to attract other, BETTER women into your life.

And if you do run into her she will sense that there is something changed about you, and unconciously she’ll respect you for having the strength to move on…

Its a strange irony that getting over your ex girlfriend may be the only way you may ever be able to rebuild anything with her in the future in the first place… But since she isn’t going to be around while you’re getting over her she isn’t going to be able to see it, and you won’t have the gratification of showing her.

Change the mindset from “I want to get over my ex girlfriend” to “How do I get over my girlfriend”…Sadly most of the time most guys don’t know the difference. They don’t actively look for solutions, because… Let’s face it, as men we have been socially conditioned to think that we aren’t supposed to look for help.

So instead guys do what they the see in the movies…

All of which, we’ve seen by know actually just makes things worse.

The quicker you move on from the “ending of the relationship” to the “getting over the relationship” part the better…Once you have fully accepted what has happened, whether you want to or not, then it just becomes a matter of how to…

How to not think about your ex girlfriend all the time…

How to not give in to the powerful urge to call her…

How to let go of the fantasies of the two of you reuniting…

How to get a to a place where you literally ‘don’t care’ anymore because you have other things going on in your life.

Once the ordeal with your ex girlfriend becomes “old news” and you can actually enjoy being single…Although being single may be the last thing you want when you think about her… Eventually another girl will come along…upset man thinking about relationship
And when she does if you are still feeling the VOID left by your ex girlfriend…

She is going to sense that you are desperate to fill that empty space…

Your next potential girlfriend will sense this as “neediness” and she will pass you by because of it…

So if you want to replace your ex girlfriend with a girl that is better for you…

Then you need to get over her FIRST.

And sitting around and waiting for that to happen is not how you do it.

Getting over her is something you DO, not something you wait for…

Takeaways…

  • Create conditions in your life that will help you get over her automatically.
  • Understand that time is NOT going to heal you by itself.
  • Get this area of your life handled now so it doesn’t get in the way of other areas of your life like work, school, social life or your opportunities with new girls…

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